Tuesday, 18 February 2014

P.H.Deep #4 Friiiiiidays

For those of you who don't know, I am not really a person that spends their Friday nights being socially active or doing something that includes making new friends or . 95% of the time I'm likely to be found in my neighbourhood, or if not at home; at my grandma's next door.

Therefore, I know what I'm talking about when I say it is OKAY to be spending one, two, three, or several of your Friday nights at home doing things, that the majority of us in our age probably wouldn't. It is also OKAY to spend your Friday nights being social and attending some event where you are required to use your social swag.

Unless I am cancelling plans, I owe nobody an explanation to why I choose to spend my Fridays like this, and if you feel the same way, neither do you.

I feel, like the phase in my life, where I just NEED to get out of the house and do something social is over for now, or forever who knows. I might sound like an old lady, but besides the magic in being alone; there's also the magic of being at home. Now that could include a walk around your house/apartment/panelak (look it up), walking your dog with your significant other or the old lady from next door (in my case, my grandma. Although she doesn't speak english, granny you da best and youthest); choosing to get your homework or uni essays out of the way (if you do that, you have all my respect)

Being at home does also include having a Sherlock marathon in your bathtub on your laptop (although there is no danger in falling asleep and drowning while watching Sherlock, you will grow fins by the time you finished the series).


Some people just need a break from people sometimes. I mean come on, there's 7 billion fucking people with different opinions on this planet. You can't just go on living your life not wanting a break from them once in a while and before I turn this into a rant about society; there will be close friends that you will want a break from too.

Or you might be just the opposite and lacking some peoplez. I once was sick for a month and my first "social event" after that month was my sister's parent-teacher evening and I found myself discussing my interests with them, while they responded with my sister's academic achievements. Talk about #sadlyfe.

As a bonus story to end this post, I will tell you my most satisfying Fridays:
Before my IB exams, some of us (classmates) used to go study in the university library in town. It became a daily thing and we agreed on having the person that was earliest in reserve the "glass room", which was basically an isolated room with a large table more chairs and no obligation of silence. As my beloved Asian classmates (my boyfriend included) and some other people like Sarah studied or at least tried, we always went home in a friendly spirit. This is where the best part comes in. The moment we got home, we turned on skype, had a group call, logged on to League of Legends and dominated the EUW server with our dreamteam and mad skills. Those were the best Friday nights.
Cool story Adel!!!11!!


Now go ahead and download all the seasons to a trending TV show and get them ready for your Friday. OR go and hunt for what you are craving outside and socialize (that wasn't supposed to sound dirty at all).


Educational quote to end with:

"Friday nights can get very handy!" - If you know what I mean



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